LifeMatters Counselling and Relationship Coaching


Kent Shelley
Registered Psychotherapist, Counsellor, and Relationship Coach

Kent offers practical insight and coaching to individuals, couples, teens, and families who find their lives being diminished by anxiety, depression, worry, and stress associated with life challenges, relationship difficulties and workplace issues. Clients will be equipped with new perspectives and skills to address their concerns, solve and grow from their problems, and if possible, repair and improve important relationships.

Individual, Family, and Relationship counselling and coaching services virtually available by phone and video in Canada and the United States.

Phone: 519-389-0871
Email: contact@kentshelley.net
Administrative Office: Goderich, Ontario, Canada

Sessions by appointment


Meet Kent

Kent's vocational spectrum includes working as a Youth Director, Teacher, Long Haul Truck Driver, Hospital Chaplain, Counsellor, and Relationship Coach.

He has experienced the joys, stresses, and emotional challenges of personal relationships, parenting children, teens, and adult children, job losses, vocational transitions, and death of loved ones. He understands the value and necessity of support, perspective, practical life skills, and hope.

Kent's training and certifications include Choice Theory and Reality Therapy (William Glasser Institute), and Personal, Relational, and Life Coaching (Yavapai College).

He holds certification as Counsellor/Psychotherapist with the Ontario Association of Mental Health Professionals, and is licensed as a Registered Psychotherapist by the Province of Ontario.

His education includes a B.Sc. Liberal Science (York University) and Masters in Education (Cincinnati Christian University).


Relationship Owner's Manual

Kent co-authored Relationship Owner’s Manual, a book for strengthening and repairing relationships.

The basis of this book is a simple one: Every day we make choices.

Will those choices strengthen our relationship or weaken it?

What can you do as an individual to improve your relationship?

What can you and your partner do together to improve your relationship?

Relationship Owner’s Manual addresses these questions, and many more, providing you with essential ideas and practical skills for creating and participating in a healthy relationship.

This book can be purchased through Amazon, iUniverse, and direct purchase.


I Have a Choice?

Almost everyone just wants to be happy. For most people, their experience of happiness is directly related to how close and well connected they are to the people they care about. For many people, the 'how to' for creating those close and connected relationships remains elusive. After investing 45 minutes reading this book, you will have an immediately useable skill and tool which hundreds of people — including husbands, wives, teens, friends, employees, employers, teachers and others — have used and proven very effective for improving damaged and difficult relationships, and for creating new relationships that more deeply satisfy our need for love and belonging and genuine happiness. Good relationships do not happen by magic or accident, but rather by choice. "I Have a Choice?" Yes, indeed. Understand it, make it, and cultivate better relationships and greater personal happiness.

This book can be purchased through Lulu, Amazon, and direct purchase.